close
Comedian Tumi Morake raped

Comedienne, Tumi Morake is sharing how she lost her virginity at the age of 15 as a result of rape. She tells Move Magazine! that the main reason she is opening up about her ordeal is to change the perception that rape is normal and that women should learn to deal with it and move on.

In her recent interview with Move, the former City Ses’la actress says growing up, she was a rap music fanatic and a dancer for a rap group and she kept the company of male friends. However, little did she know that a boy she had a crush on would one day violate her privacy and rape her.

“It was one of those weekends where we had a performance at one of the universities in the Free State and I had borrowed a belt from this boy I had a crush on. When I went to return it at his residence he locked the room and raped me. When I told him to stop he didn’t listen and when I tried to push him away he wouldn’t let me go,” she recalls. She says what made matters worse was that she wasn’t sure if she should tell anyone of her ordeal because she was afraid that people would question why she was in a boy’s room in the first place. “Looking back I was left broken and hurt and I turned to drinking and smoking, which was never my thing,” says the former Our Perfect Wedding host.

Tumi, who has been married to actor and screenwriter, Mpho Osei- Tutu for six years, says her coping mechanism was to project a tough and strong image and she became aggressive and harsh to hide her vulnerability. Subconsciously, the Free State-born star would try to laugh it off and not take herself too seriously.

“However, what I know for sure is that the rape made me go through a dark period in my life. It was not easy to open up, but somehow I managed to talk to one of my neighbours about it and I also had an English teacher who cared enough to notice I wasn’t myself and she counselled me. My grades started dropping and I started withdrawing from doing the things that I enjoyed. Rape can be complex and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. My healing is still a work in progress,” she says.

As a mother, Tumi said she wants to be her kids’ first point of reference whenever they feel the need to open up about something they feel strongly about.

Visit www.rapecrisis.org.za or call 021 447 9762 for rape crisis.

Source: Move Magazine

 

Christian

The author Christian

My name is Christopher Jones and I am a copywriter for this South African online celebrity magazine. Read all the latest celebrity news in South Africa with exclusive stories coming from your favourite celebrities. You also get to see who made celebrity news this week from the world of showbiz

Leave a Response